
My name is Rayden Alexander. I am a successful businessman and the son of Margaretha and Williams Alexander. But until now I never knew where papa was, because he chose to leave us since I was 5 years old.
Maybe at that time I did not know anything, but it still feels remembered until now.
I'm a businessman who is engaged in property and design. I pioneered the business since I was still sitting on the bench in college, until now the effort I lived fruitfully and advanced very rapidly.
I am now 27 years old. I still feel at home with the single status I live in at this time. If you ask me why I have not been married. The answer is that I don't want to get married and have a child.
"Ray, you're old. Why not get married?? " Say my friend at that time.
"Life is not a benchmark, bro. Marriage is not my life choice!! ". Answer me
"It's good, bro. Sleep there are cool, eat there are nyiapin until clothes there are nyuciin!! ". Sahut.
"Haha, if Loe's definition is just that a maid can be, bro. Chant your clothes, masakin and soin bolster your bedmate Loe!! "
"But it's good, we don't have to pay or rent a maid. Especially later if we already have children, beuh happiness calculated!! ". Her speech.
"Loe looking for a maid or a wife anyway?? Wonderful I'm with Loe." My legow.
Of course I wonder why so many men interpret that a Wife must perform every task which is not entirely the duty of the Wife.
"Kalo Loe is not married, does not want to have children. Loe will be lonely. continue who will take care of Loe, care of Loe when Loe is old later?? ". Ask.
I sighed a little, before giving an explanation with my personal mindset and outlook.
"I'm Dengerin, bro. Maybe later I will be lonely, but at least I'm lonely not because I wait for a child who never comes. After all, children are not a guarantee of happiness. Loe sure, if Loe's son will take care of Loe, take care of Loe as Loe just said. Remember, if the child is an adult he will leave us, he will have a way of life each and his own family. Finally what, Loe stays alone and befriends deserted!!! ". Say me at length.
I just want to explain who says from my own point of view, his name is also human. Different point of view.
While my friend can only gawk and rub his nape, when I say it.
"As far as Loe ajalah, I'm the same Loe dissent!! ". Say My Friend.
I just smiled at him and ended our conversation.
I have never been in a serious love affair with a woman. Not that I played him, but this is the truth. I don't want to be tied to a woman I think is too much.
"Ray, when did you marry me?? ". Viona asked, at that time she asked for certainty about our relationship.
"Sorry Viona, I cannot marry you!! ". I said relax.
"What. After all we've been through, you easily say that word. Cruel you, Ray!! ". Shouted Viona furiously.
"Calm down, I don't want to get married. But we can have a relationship like this!! ". My speech.
"No, I can't. I cannot have a relationship without certainty. What about family? ". His words did not accept.
"Yes if that was your choice. Hope you get the best companion!! ". I said as I passed away.
Love Story, Household and Child. It wasn't in the history dictionary in my life.
"You don't want to get married, build a happy Household and have kids, Ray?? ". Say Mama.
Again I had to sigh and prepare the answers to all the questions my mother had always asked.
"I told you how many times, Ma. Stop talking and ask that question!! ". My speech
"But right, Ray. You are an adult. You should be married and have children. Look at all your friends already at Marriage and have children, only you have not!! ". Say Mama.
"Alright, Ma. Ray is tired of answering questions that sound monotonous Mama, only about Marriage and children!! ". Say it as it passes away in front of Mama
If the Son is a guarantee of happiness, then why did papa leave us. Even papa went with another woman. It all proves that children alone are not enough.
I always thought that children were bad luck to parents, and so was I to my papa. Until he left me who was still young.
Therefore, I don't want to stay at home like other friends. I don't want to hurt and wait for the child when I'm old. It must have been painful, didn't it.
These past wounds are still lingering in my memory and my heart, making it hard to forget them. Not that I don't want to get out of my comfort zone, but I'm more comfortable living alone without a partner or a child.
Maybe Mama was fed up with my behavior that continued to follow the Principles of life that I hold, until Mama began to aggressively find me a companion. He was afraid that if I wasn't normal, when I was too mature.
"Ray, look at these photos. Pretty-beautiful right?? ". Ask Mama while showing me pictures of beautiful women.
"What the hell, Ma. Why try ginian?? ". Ask me wonder.
"Make your pick, Ray. Do what else!! ". Sahut Mama's.
"Ma, stop looking for me partner. I guess I didn't do it!! ". My grouse.
"You don't sell, if you do. Maybe you'll get married!! ". Sahut Mama's.
"Don't start, yeah. Ma!! ". My speech.
Again and again I have to face situations like this. Situations that I think are so unimportant. Ahh Mama, always meddling in my personal affairs.
Until one day Mama found a girl named Nesya. He took her home and lived together.
"Ma, why does that woman have to live here?? ". My protest.
"And he'll be your candidate, Ray. There's no harm in him staying here!! ". Sahut Mama's.
"But, Ma. "my words were cut off by the movement of Mama's hand that covered my mouth.
I don't like him, but I hold it for Mama's sake. It is like a shame in this life.
Until Mama accidentally got heart disease, making her have to be hospitalized. Mama asked that I marry Nesya, with much consideration and fear that Mama would return Drop. I finally agreed to marry Nesya.